A Valentine’s Day Message For YOU
When you first and you say those 3 important words to someone you want to get closer to, you begin the journey into deepening that love. Falling in love, however might take a little longer….
This morning as I was getting ready to write something about Valentine’s Day, I was listening to some of my favourite new thought leaders.
It reminded me of the many years I spent in the presence of a wonderful spiritual leader, as she weaved her teachings of love and life into a beautiful tapestry, filled with moments of enlightenment for those who were able to “hear”.
When you first and you say those 3 important words to someone you want to get closer to, you begin the journey into deepening that love.
Saying “I love you” to someone, is a very big deal. Its the moment when you know that this is someone you want to be with.
The falling in love part, however, might take a little longer.
When I speak with people who desperately want to be in a relationship and feel like they are a failure without one, I help them to know that there is more to their journey into love.
I heard someone say recently how they did not believe that you need to appreciate and love yourself in order to be loved. Hmmm. I think that the quality of love you receive when you value yourself is very different from the quality of loving relationships you attract when you do not value yourself. Learning to love your life, who you are and what you stand for, is an important first step to attracting deep loving relationships.
Doing the important inner work, before diving into the deeper end of love with “the one” creates a powerfully safe place for both of you to open up and know that you have found that safe place where your heart can open and allow the light of love in one step at a time. Its a place that embraces you in all of who you are. And its a place where you just know that no one is going anywhere.
That my friends is deep love. And it all begins with you.
For those of you who know divine love, show each other in words, actions and a deepening of what is already yours.
And if by chance you are alone today, do something special for yourself. Every day is a great day to practice self care and especially today.
And when you arrive at deep love, you will know.
“When love comes, you will know it and there is nothing else” – Caterina
Happy Valentine’s Day!
With love and smiles across the miles.
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